tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8568619474449091271.post4350463113301452252..comments2023-11-02T04:21:19.463-05:00Comments on 10 centimeters and beyond: ViabilityNurse Lochiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07137987823813922532noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8568619474449091271.post-68070420587517916362009-12-01T09:22:25.884-06:002009-12-01T09:22:25.884-06:00Viability is a huge milestone in my mind as well. ...Viability is a huge milestone in my mind as well. I am a fellow LD nurse, so maybe that is why we see it as such. The core reason why we see it that way is irrelevant however. It is the fact that you are wounded deeply, and you keep putting one foot in front of the next, doing the next best thing, the best way that you know how, that is what matters. It is inevitable that in life our wounds will keep coming up, the blessing is that slowly, and sometimes so very imperceptably slowly, each time we come to a milestone that resurfaces our pain, that pain is a little less raw, a little less deep. I wanted to share with you a healing journal for mothers that a friend of mine wrote about lossing a baby. It is called Mending Invisible Wings: Healing From the Loss of Your Baby by Mary Burgess. Mary is an amazing woman, a mother, a doula, a Birthing From Within mentor and childbirth educator, a leader of support groups for families who have lost babies in Bellingham Washington. Here is a link to the journal online. http://www.palmofherhand.com/catalog/item/6871221/6845308.htm <br /><br />My wish for you is that your milestones become less painful to cross yet do not lose their meanings in your heart. I commend your for sharing your pain so openly and knowing what you need to do to get through these hard times.Aletheahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04639814301020489364noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8568619474449091271.post-60059201670976210862009-11-26T06:23:20.337-06:002009-11-26T06:23:20.337-06:00My heart goes out to you. Losing a baby is very ve...My heart goes out to you. Losing a baby is very very hard.pinkyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00198277802918823591noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8568619474449091271.post-74755460571652289882009-11-25T19:55:10.972-06:002009-11-25T19:55:10.972-06:00I remember loosing my a baby at 12 weeks... it was...I remember loosing my a baby at 12 weeks... it was a missed abortion and the baby stopped growing around nine weeks. I had all the dates in my head too... the end of morning sickness, my expanding belly... it was a sad time and I had no outlet. It was "too early to get attached." I'm sad I wasn't able to grieve as openly and as eloquently as you...Erykahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02191777219816340079noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8568619474449091271.post-59747027510972839092009-11-25T19:27:00.429-06:002009-11-25T19:27:00.429-06:00Hope you have a blessed Thanksgiving. Heaven is ri...Hope you have a blessed Thanksgiving. Heaven is richer because of your little one. God bless.Taking Hearthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11582706569774851613noreply@blogger.com